A remarkable man, Bryon Riesch, came to UW-Whitewater to share his views on communication and how to communicate with the disabled population. Bryon opened his speech by what I thought was going to be sentimental and emotional but this is what he said, “This morning I woke up and was thankful to be alive but also still wonders why god let this happen to me, male pattern baldness sucks!”
In 1998, a 19-year-old Marquette student survived a life threatening accident. Bryon was severely injured at a college get together when he took a what seemed normal run at a slip and slide to find himself laying feeling less from his neck down. He is now a C5 quadriplegic after snapping his neck at the fifth vertebrae of his spine. He only has use of his shoulders and biceps. Bryon spent three months in the hospital and 27 of those days were in the Intensive Care Unit. He was on a venalator, had tubes coming from all parts of his body, and on many medications. Life was not easy after this accident. He had to learn how to talk again after being on a velalator for so long. Bryon did know that he wanted to go back to school and surprisingly back to Marquette of all places.
Bryon’s first class he decided to take was Spanish and then took another semester of his and started to build his work load of classes back up. He received his degree in Information Technology and Marketing in five years at Marquette. His first company he worked with was Goodwill Industries. The company helps disabled people get jobs. Bryon is an advocate of Goodwill because they teach people with disabilities how to deal with their condition, market themselves in the job world, and how to make people feel comfortable around his disability. He also worked five years at Northwest Mutual. He currently works for R & R Insurance as a project manager. Also, he started the Bryon Riesch Foundation in 2001. His foundation raises money to help find the cure for paralysis. They work with Frater Medical College to help fund medical research for the spinal chord, spinal chord injuries, Parkinson’s, and ALS.
“Everyone has a disability,” Bryon believes. Being disabled himself; Bryon knows that communication is key when it comes to interacting with people who have a disability. The most important tips when communicating verbally and non verbally with disabled people are; be respectful, don’t stare, don’t be scared to ask questions, talk normally, introduce yourself, when introducing yourself talk directly to them, be friendly, and don’t pet their guide dog if you haven’t received permission. Also, gauging what’s appropriate in every day life such as the work environment to not ask if the person needs help multiple times. Most disabled people in the workforce will tell you what they can and can’t do and when they need help. The majority of people with disabilities can do pretty much everything that a person without a disability can; they might just have to participate a little differently.
Overall, I really enjoyed Bryon’s speech. Bryon is a remarkable person considering everything that’s happened to him and what he has dealt with in his day-to-day life since his horrific accident. It amazes me how much Bryon is able and willing to do even with his disability such as, being a project manager, running his own foundation, and living life to the fullest. In his free time he enjoys watching television, playing sports, attending sporting events, fantasy football, bars, movies, fishing, and gambling. Bryon still goes on living life as if the accident never happened. Hearing Bryon speak about his life reminds me that there’s always someone worse off then you. Just because someone is disabled doesn’t mean they live less of a life than others do. Bryon’s philosophy about life, “You have to have a dream. Don’t be scared to dream and to hope that it will happen. Live a reality today and work towards your dream coming true.” He is an inspiration and gives hope to all people who have dreams no matter what condition one might be in.